Obsessive-compulsive disorder is the presence of obsessions and/or compulsions. Although many parents experience anxious thoughts often related to the baby’s health and happiness, these thoughts can transform into other thoughts or images of harming the baby that are frightening and shameful to the mother. With proper treatment and support, symptoms of obsessive-compulsive disorder can be well managed.
Obsessions: unwanted thoughts that are persistent, repetitive thoughts or mental images related to the baby. These can be very upsetting. For example, you may find yourself intensely worrying that your baby will be harmed due to contamination by germs/dirt.
Important Note: Obsessive Thoughts
People who experience obsessive thoughts typically know they are bizarre, and they are very unlikely to act on them.
Compulsions: repetitive behaviour or mental acts that you feel the need to perform to reduce fears/obsessions. For example, you may be washing/cleaning repeatedly and excessively preventing you from doing other things.
Fast Fact
About 2% of women experience obsessive-compulsive disorders during the perinatal period. The rate of obsessive-compulsive disorder in trans and non-binary new parents is not known, but is thought to be similar.
Other possible symptoms of obsessive-compulsive disorder:
- sense of horror about the obsessions
- fear of being left alone with the baby
- hypervigilance in protecting the baby
- inability to fulfill tasks related to everyday life due to obsessions/compulsions